Love is consuetudinary - Wedding Network in Inner Mongolia

Love is consuetudinary, show antenuptial men and women adores behavior only, it is a of life important process, also be a of marriage common culture serious content. The love of world each nation is consuetudinary, or widely different, or very much the same, it may be said is colourful. Same for the nation, or edge of past dynasties photograph, or be not former times comparing today, endless also and identical. From big range for, the love of each district is consuetudinary can divide roughly to open model, conservative model with interpose at opening with guard the solid between to finalize the design 3 kinds of means.

Open model amative i.e. at ordinary times people often says " free love " , it is to show young men and women can interact freely, profession love, oneself choose way of a kind of love. The long-standing of consuetudinary it may be said of this kind of free love, but exact record sees hard however in Chinese ancient time.

Conservative model love does not have freedom absolutely but character, its marriage is monopolized completely by parents -- do not put in love namely actually this one process. Chinese ancient time takes the place of from the Song Dynasty -- especially after the Southern Song Dynasty, basically was to develop way of this kind of love. The marriage of archaic men and women is complete allow at " parental life, the character of intermediary Shuo " , very rare what is free but character.

The love that solid finalizes the design, it is interpose at opening model with conservative model the means of a kind of love between. This kind of love is consuetudinary, also prohibit at ordinary times free society of young men and women, but should hold in a specific time similar " carnival " activity, and in this kind of activity, young men and women can choose the lover in her memory freely. First the marriage of and other places of Zheng Guo of period of the Qin Dynasty is consuetudinary, be similar to this kind of type namely. According to " official of ground of week ceremony · " account: "In Chun Zhiyue, your meeting men and women then when also, the person that run quickly can'ts help. The person do not have husband home of department men and women and of the meeting. " be in annual the season that Chun Nuanhua opened the traditional Chinese calendar in Feburary, by government-owned intermediary men and women of constituent young person holds outdoor ball. On such ball, young men and women can choose her lover freely, elope to also prohibit without the person on the spot even. " Wei of Qin of · of wind of Zheng of · of The Book of Songs " , " in mulberry of 鄘wind · " wait piece in, also account first the love that period of the Qin Dynasty compares freedom this kind is consuetudinary.